Thursday, May 29, 2008
Advice from Oprah About Men.
1) If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2) Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
3) Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
4) Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
5) If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
6) If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
7) Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
8) Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
9) If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
10) You cannot change a man's behaviour. Change comes from within.
11) Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
12) Never let a man define who you are.
13) Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
14) A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
15) You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.
16) You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
17) You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
18) The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
19) Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are,and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
20) Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
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xoxoxo Sarah 10:25 AM.
Monday, May 19, 2008
Tired..tired..tired.
xoxoxo Sarah 7:44 PM.
Friday, May 16, 2008
Gah..its night shift again today till sun. Dear just finished his..so sad we havent done night shift together for a long time already. But the good thing was that we had the same day off yesterday and we caught Made of Honour. A very very nice show and Patrick Dempsey is sooo cuteeee!
I'm missing dear already..
Wells i just hope today will be less packed. Its tiring to work when it is soooooooo busy at night. The long hours and stuff. Just praying for the best.
Amazingly i havent had my breakfast or my lunch cause i jus woke up not long ago and after this entry i am going back to dreamland. Hahaha. Shall jus have my dinner later on.
Tml will be my grandma's 2nd yr death anniversary. How time flies. Still missing her though.
And btw i read the news that lee kuan yew wife had a stroke wif brain haemorrhage on monday plus she was at ttsh. She was admitted to nicu where my grandma was before but the good thing is her haemorrhage was somehow treatable and now she is in general ward. prob the 13th storey( a class wards).
Just hope she will recover from it.
Kayes..i wanna go back to sleep now before i start craving for food..so God Bless!
I'm missing dear already..
Wells i just hope today will be less packed. Its tiring to work when it is soooooooo busy at night. The long hours and stuff. Just praying for the best.
Amazingly i havent had my breakfast or my lunch cause i jus woke up not long ago and after this entry i am going back to dreamland. Hahaha. Shall jus have my dinner later on.
Tml will be my grandma's 2nd yr death anniversary. How time flies. Still missing her though.
And btw i read the news that lee kuan yew wife had a stroke wif brain haemorrhage on monday plus she was at ttsh. She was admitted to nicu where my grandma was before but the good thing is her haemorrhage was somehow treatable and now she is in general ward. prob the 13th storey( a class wards).
Just hope she will recover from it.
Kayes..i wanna go back to sleep now before i start craving for food..so God Bless!
xoxoxo Sarah 1:31 PM.
Friday, May 09, 2008
Thanks for the concern babes..i guess i am feeling slightly better now prob cause tml i can finally say goodbye to work...for a day. I need to unwind seriously after working straight for 7 days and havent went for any breaks for the past 2 days.
Btw i have finally......yes finally goin to learn driving!! Registered with comfort driving school yesterday and i will be learning in june. Yipppes.. Something to look forward to.. :) TP wld be in aug so in june july..i have to be very intensive. Really hope i will be able to and get the licence i always wanted..plus before my advance theory end.
Plus...shalini is coming back soon so double yay.
Oh ya..and jus now i experienced a miracle..thank god for that.
K..i am in need of sleep now. God Bless!!
Btw i have finally......yes finally goin to learn driving!! Registered with comfort driving school yesterday and i will be learning in june. Yipppes.. Something to look forward to.. :) TP wld be in aug so in june july..i have to be very intensive. Really hope i will be able to and get the licence i always wanted..plus before my advance theory end.
Plus...shalini is coming back soon so double yay.
Oh ya..and jus now i experienced a miracle..thank god for that.
K..i am in need of sleep now. God Bless!!
xoxoxo Sarah 11:52 PM.
Wednesday, May 07, 2008
I'm feeling down lately...some nights i wake up in tears. There isnt anything to make me happy.
I jus feel like flying away from this place.
Haiz.
I am jus depresssssed.
I jus feel like flying away from this place.
Haiz.
I am jus depresssssed.
xoxoxo Sarah 11:56 AM.
Monday, May 05, 2008
Randomness----
7. Current fav song- Our Song by Taylor Swift.
1. Currently down with the flu blug..one day of MC isnt really enough.
2. Up to date, I've Watched:
-Juno
-The hottie and the nottie
-Superhero movie
-Over her dead body
3. Just bought 3 books for my reading pleasure..
4. My sight for the past week..contacts lens.
5. Subscribed to Mobtv for 3 mths. :)
6. Being reading lots of young mummies blogs...really interesting and cute babies they have.
7. Current fav song- Our Song by Taylor Swift.
8. Missing all my girlfriends..
9. Wishes ED will be less packed.
10. Currently love this Gucci bag..
Its just a dream..
11. Getting bored of my ipod songs..i want new songs!!
12. I have known dear for 1 year already..time flies..
K..i shall go sleep now...God Bless!
xoxoxo Sarah 9:26 PM.
Thursday, May 01, 2008
Just finished my another round of night shift. Nothing much is going on in my life though..jus work work work and i'm deprived from shopping!!
Last night i was having a convo wif my collegues abt the USA and omg i so wanna go there lah esp Disneyland. When will i ever ever have a chance to go?
Carynn will be going there soon wif shalini..those 2 lucky gals.
I just hope the day will come soon for me to explore US soil...hehe.
Anyhows do watch Superhero movie if u can..that show is one of the funniest ever.
Updates soon i hope..
God Bless
*missing u now*
Last night i was having a convo wif my collegues abt the USA and omg i so wanna go there lah esp Disneyland. When will i ever ever have a chance to go?
Carynn will be going there soon wif shalini..those 2 lucky gals.
I just hope the day will come soon for me to explore US soil...hehe.
Anyhows do watch Superhero movie if u can..that show is one of the funniest ever.
Updates soon i hope..
God Bless
*missing u now*
xoxoxo Sarah 11:44 PM.
